The next area to be aware of is what we often refer to as the "yes, but....". Anytime we use but in language it often erodes trust and negates what you say right before it. If it is used in the context of feedback, using "yes, but" serves to weaken the process and put the person receiving the feedback on the defensive. Using "AND" instead will help to facilitate the continued open discussion.
Questions to consider:
What boundaries currently exist?
How do these help or hinder the team?
What boundaries do you need to create in order to support productivity and health?
With best wishes,
Jennifer
Jennifer Britton, MES, CPT, PCC
Potentials Realized: Coaching | Teamwork | Leadership
Supporting Team Leaders to do their best work, one conversation at a time
Author of From One to Many: Best Practices for Team and Group Coaching (Jossey-Bass, 2013)
Authorized Partner of Everything DiSC and the Five Behaviors of a Cohesive Team
Jennifer Britton, MES, CPT, PCC
Potentials Realized: Coaching | Teamwork | Leadership
Supporting Team Leaders to do their best work, one conversation at a time
Author of From One to Many: Best Practices for Team and Group Coaching (Jossey-Bass, 2013)
Authorized Partner of Everything DiSC and the Five Behaviors of a Cohesive Team